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By webwench (Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:14:11 AM EST) (all tags)

We're leaving Monday for our three week trip, and planning to tie the knot along the way.

Given the season and weather and various 'paperwork' delays, we have decided to go west rather than north.

I announced the plans to all family via email (although most knew already) with the dates, destnations, etc.

Everyone's ecstatic and congratulatory... except dad, who is disappointed that we are not including family in the actual event, and particularly that my son is not included in the actual event. Thinks my boy feels left out (which admittedly is a possibility).

Bleh.

I wonder if a reception on our return would fill the bill. Something we'd thought about and talked about, but never actually got around to planning.

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Drive fast! Take chances! by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #1 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:23:15 AM EST

And con grad you lay shuns.
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Congrats by ana (4.00 / 1) #2 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:28:00 AM EST

Throw a party when you get back.

Power up your flaming yo-yos already! --StackyMcRacky

Congrats, and what kind of water is on your by georgeha (2.00 / 0) #3 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:28:27 AM EST

registry? Mineral, sparking, distilled, tap?

ha ha by webwench (2.00 / 0) #4 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:30:27 AM EST

we registered for camping equipment...

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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I know where you can some barely used stuff by georgeha (3.40 / 5) #5 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:32:49 AM EST

one owner.

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you are a horrible human being by webwench (4.00 / 2) #12 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 12:53:52 PM EST

I LOL'd

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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: If trhurler were reading that by georgeha (4.00 / 1) #13 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 12:55:45 PM EST

he had have said "yeah, from your mother".

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Party by thunderbee (4.00 / 4) #6 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:34:08 AM EST

It's a great way to get everyone happy, without the hassle of an everyone-comes-to-the-wedding event.

Since the wedding is done already, there is little pressure on anyone, people are more relaxed, and everyone has a good time. Not to mention the fact that casual wear is easier on everyone.

Did this ourselves, would do it again ;)

: agreed by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 1) #9 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 12:22:30 PM EST

my mom threw us a party about a month later, and that made everybody happy. we had a slideshow going on the computer of wedding and honeymoon photos.

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"We're … planning to tie the knot by chuckles (2.00 / 0) #7 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:46:33 AM EST

along the way"

not

"We're … tying the knot along the way"

Skateboarding is a crime.

(Comment Deleted) by vorheesleatherface (2.00 / 0) #8 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 12:22:03 PM EST

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Congrats. by vorheesleatherface (4.00 / 4) #10 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 12:22:38 PM EST

Please do include your boy somehow. It'll most likely mean a lot to him. Best of luck.

"Stabbing someone in the head with a pitchfork is rarely beneficial to the relationship." - MereKat

: Congratulations by motty (4.00 / 2) #24 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 08:59:38 PM EST

Maybe you could have him take some role in some small ceremonial part of your do / reception thing for when you get back. Or something.
Hell, I don't know. But I do agree with vlf.
And congratulations anyway.

I amd itn ecaptiaghle of drinking sthis d dar - Dr T
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Most couples by riceowlguy (2.00 / 0) #11 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 12:32:03 PM EST

that I've talked to, anyway, would rather just get hitched and be done with it. The wedding is for your family, not you. Since both of you have already been there, done that, you're perfectly correct I think to pull a McClocky or some variant thereof.

Where West? by atreides (2.00 / 0) #14 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 01:10:03 PM EST

Not that I'm stalking you guys or anything... :P

_{He sails from world to world in a flying tomb, serving gods who eat hope.}

we're following I-10 by webwench (2.00 / 0) #19 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 04:07:02 PM EST

all the way to LA, then up the California coast as far as we can go, with stops here and there... we'll ping you when we're close by and at least say hi :)

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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i-10? which passes through HOUSTON? by clock (2.00 / 0) #22 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 08:31:07 PM EST

free room and board with 20 minutes notice...and you'd get to see the dude aka "CUTEST BABAY EVAR!!!"

seriously...if you need a place to crash, we have room!

pm to yours truly or stacky if you need it.

_{Clock is right. [nt] --vorheesleatherface}

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i second clock by StackyMcRacky (2.00 / 0) #23 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 08:51:34 PM EST

you have a place to crash if you need to!

i'm home all day (more or less) so like he said, 20 minutes notice is all we need.

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: dannng by webwench (2.00 / 0) #34 Wed Nov 21, 2007 at 11:59:11 PM EST

If our progress turned out like we originally thought it would, we would have been messaging you... as it is, we only made it to Beaumont on Tuesday night (mega delays on I-10 west of Baton Rouge), and blasted on past Houston & Dallas today.

Dallas drivers are horrible. Or maybe it's just that holiday rush. I thought I was dead at least twice. No such issues in Houston, though. Y'all are nice.

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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You can leave? by chuckles (2.00 / 0) #25 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 09:33:30 PM EST

Is that allowed under Saakashvili's state of emergency?

Skateboarding is a crime.

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CA coast? by R343L (2.00 / 0) #28 Thu Nov 15, 2007 at 12:38:55 AM EST

Awesome. there are like a truckload of people along it.

"There will be time, there will be time / To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet." -- Eliot
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AWESOME! by Horatio Hellpop (2.00 / 0) #30 Thu Nov 15, 2007 at 03:40:26 AM EST

Come up to the Emerald City and kick my arse!

"You can't really know something until you ruin it for everyone." -some guy who used to have an account here
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oh yeah by webwench (2.00 / 0) #20 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 04:09:45 PM EST

we lost our camera cable for ages, and just found it Monday night... so, months after the fact, we finally got the photos from your visit off the camera! Want me to zip some up and send?

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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Sure! by atreides (2.00 / 0) #21 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 05:20:17 PM EST

Welsh Girl would dig them the most!!! And I woulnd't hate them either...

_{He sails from world to world in a flying tomb, serving gods who eat hope.}
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hey look by webwench (2.00 / 0) #29 Thu Nov 15, 2007 at 02:18:36 AM EST

photos!

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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Woohoo!!! by atreides (2.00 / 0) #31 Thu Nov 15, 2007 at 08:00:13 AM EST

Have I told you lately that I adore you? :)

_{He sails from world to world in a flying tomb, serving gods who eat hope.}
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: aww by webwench (2.00 / 0) #32 Thu Nov 15, 2007 at 08:45:04 AM EST

^{Getting more attention than you since 1998.}
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Congrats! by Breaker (4.00 / 1) #16 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 02:41:37 PM EST

7 weeks in and still loving it.

congratulations! by R343L (2.00 / 0) #17 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 02:45:43 PM EST

Etc, happy returns.

To echo everyone else, the party would make the families happy, plus everyone gets to know each other which is probably better than the in-laws not knowing and/or disliking each other. :)

"There will be time, there will be time / To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet." -- Eliot

Congratulations by FlightTest (4.00 / 2) #18 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 03:03:01 PM EST

A fast fun wedding beats the long ceremony every time. Plus you have extra dough to spend on the honeymoon.

Hey, by blixco (2.00 / 0) #26 Wed Nov 14, 2007 at 11:05:56 PM EST

good luck and have fun. And have the reception when you get back, but maybe a month or so.
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did you already have a bachelorette party? by Nigga (4.00 / 2) #27 Thu Nov 15, 2007 at 12:17:27 AM EST

and no, I wont strip for you, though i'm flattered you crave it.

Congrats! by duxup (2.00 / 0) #33 Tue Nov 20, 2007 at 10:52:10 AM EST

n/t
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